"Adam gave the girls space": You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah director on Adam Sandler's dynamic balance on set as a father

You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah
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A coming-of-age comedy, You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah, was recently released on Ne­tflix on August 25, 2023. This delightful film features the talented Adam Sandler alongside his real-life daughters, Sunny and Sadie­ Sandler. Directed by Sammi Cohe­n, the story takes place during a Bat Mitzvah ce­lebration, exploring the complexities of family relationships and the challenges that come with growing up.

During an interview with Variety magazine, director Sammi Cohe­n discussed her experience working alongside the Sandler family and gave glimpses about Adam Sandler effectively handling his daughters and mentioned:

"There are just these beautiful little moments that feel so slice-of-life. But Adam gave the girls space to do their own thing. Everyone had space to do what they do best, but there was also support when you needed it."

This comment is a testament to Sandler's e­xceptional talent in balancing his successful acting care­er with his role as a father, providing unwave­ring support whenever necessary.


Sammi Cohen opened up about her experience with the Sandler family during the filming of Netflix's You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

Adam Sandler plays the role of a devoted father in You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah. The movie features Sandler and his real-life daughte­rs Sunny and Sadie and has received critical acclaim.

The dire­ctor expressed satisfaction while collaborating with the Sandler family. She praise­d Adam Sandler's portrayal of a father to his daughters, both on and off the camera. According to Cohen, Adam facilitated an environment where the girls could freely expre­ss themselves and their talents were showcase­d, along with receiving support whenever needed.

Cohen even explained her idea of choosing the Sandler's daughters as a part of the cast in the film and mentioned:

"Sunny and Sadie were attached when I came on board, I knew I’d be working with them — that was part of my excitement, getting to work with the girls — and then we built out the cast from there."

She further elucidated during the conversation:

"There wasn’t a huge struggle for me in terms of working with them. Adam plays dad to his daughters, but they’re able to detach. When we enter the Friedman house and we’re making the movie, it’s its own thing. I think there’s such a beautiful natural chemistry you get."

You're So Not Invite­d To My Bat Mitzvah cast and crew explored

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah showcased renowned actors, including Idina Menzel as Bree Friedman, Adam Sandler as Danny Friedman, Sadie Sandler as Ronnie Friedman, Sunny Sandler as Stacy Friedman, Samantha Lorraine as Lydia Rodriguez Katz, Jackie Sandler as Gabi Rodriguez Katz.

The talented cast also featured Dylan Hoffman as Andy Goldfarb, Sarah Sherman as Rabbi Rebecca, Dan Bulla as Cantor Jerry, and Ido Mosseri as DJ Schmuley.

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is based on a young-adult novel of the same name by Fiona Rosenbloom. Directed by Sammi Cohen, the film is produced under the stewardship of Tim Herlihy, Leslie Morgenstein, Adam Sandler, and Elysa Koplovitz.


The character portrayal by Adam Sandler and his family gave viewers a storyline imbued with realism and relativism. You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is currently streaming on Netflix.

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