We are just four episodes into 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 5 and Julio and Kirsten are already fighting over their future plans. Netherlands resident Kirsten is currently visiting her partner Julio in New York to meet his family before they move to the Netherlands permanently. While this was always the plan, within days Kirsten realized that he had not talked to his family and friends about moving to her country.Julio told his mother about his intention of moving to a new country just days before Kirsten’a arrival and they tried to convince her to stay in the US. Julio’s aunt mentioned that according to tradition, the woman follows the man. Julio's cousin asked Kirsten to move to the US for a couple of months before moving to the Netherlands. View this post on Instagram Instagram PostKirsten immediately shot down the idea but Julio barely said anything to his family, which the former felt was not fair to her. Later, Julio’s friend Vicente also expressed his concern that the couple had not spent enough time together so he suggested that he should buy his own place in the Netherlands before moving in with his partner.Julio entertained the idea for a while, after which Kirsten felt that he was gaslighting her and stated,"I feel completely blindsided right now. I’m totally in shock."90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans were also shocked by Julio’s attitude as the couple had already decided to move to the new country but now he was turning away.TenderRonii 🌺@_MissRaeeeJulio is soooo trash. My blood boils watching him. He flips everything in front of his family #90dayfiancetheotherway8Julio is soooo trash. My blood boils watching him. He flips everything in front of his family #90dayfiancetheotherway90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans slam Julio for changing plans suddenly View this post on Instagram Instagram PostJulio assured Kirsten that he loved her, but mentioned that the visit was an "eye opener" for other people's concern for him. He said,"It’s hard because I wanna reassure Kirsten that it’s fine and it’s OK for us to move in together, but I’m starting to have second thoughts about me moving."90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fans slammed Julio for suddenly changing his mind and for hurting Kirsten.❤MinksCastelo❤@MINKS808#90dayfiancetheotherway Julio doesn't know what he wants, NOW?? You made Kirsten feel like you'd have a life TOGETHER with her in her country. Wishy-washy.#90dayfiancetheotherway Julio doesn't know what he wants, NOW?? You made Kirsten feel like you'd have a life TOGETHER with her in her country. Wishy-washy.OneOfAKind ♌️@mstenacious1Julio isn’t going to move #90dayfiancetheotherway1Julio isn’t going to move #90dayfiancetheotherway🐝 MommaB 🐝@bgwaters2Julio is trying to change everything now on Kirsten. He is scared of his family. #90dayfiancetheotherway1Julio is trying to change everything now on Kirsten. He is scared of his family. #90dayfiancetheotherwayLip Gloss Queen@rafiqahakhdarEven though their moving fast Julio is definitely wrong in the situation like he kept Kirsten a whole secret from everyone then the minute he hears another opinion he immediately wants to change every plan. She needs to bounce ASAPP #90dayfiancetheotherway #90dayfianceEven though their moving fast Julio is definitely wrong in the situation like he kept Kirsten a whole secret from everyone then the minute he hears another opinion he immediately wants to change every plan. She needs to bounce ASAPP #90dayfiancetheotherway #90dayfiancePlan to Leave@PlanToLeaveJulio just showed Kirsten a hole in his house made by a stray bullet that narrowly missed his mother cooking in the kitchen. Then he and his entire family are confused about why she doesn’t want to live in the US? #90dayfiancetheotherway8Julio just showed Kirsten a hole in his house made by a stray bullet that narrowly missed his mother cooking in the kitchen. Then he and his entire family are confused about why she doesn’t want to live in the US? #90dayfiancetheotherwayTv queen@Realiteatv30Julio literally doesn’t have a plan and presented Kirsten with some bs #90DayFiance #90dayfiancetheotherway9Julio literally doesn’t have a plan and presented Kirsten with some bs #90DayFiance #90dayfiancetheotherwaySherry Saunders@Sharon6227Julio is a coward! He continuously made Kirsten answer his family’s questions. His behavior should signal to Kirsten that Julio is immature. #90dayfiancetheotherway #90DayFiance101Julio is a coward! He continuously made Kirsten answer his family’s questions. His behavior should signal to Kirsten that Julio is immature. #90dayfiancetheotherway #90DayFiancewinegal96@winegal96Julio is indecisive which totally makes sense why he didn’t tell anyone about moving. He’s so meek. #90dayfiancetheotherway2Julio is indecisive which totally makes sense why he didn’t tell anyone about moving. He’s so meek. #90dayfiancetheotherwayReality TV Universe 🌎@RealityTVUI feel sorry for Kirstin because Julio has been gaslighting her all along about moving to the Netherlands to live together. #90DayFiance #TheOtherWay #90DayFianceTheOtherWay pic.twitter.com/FF7nIYCz3Z10I feel sorry for Kirstin because Julio has been gaslighting her all along about moving to the Netherlands to live together. #90DayFiance #TheOtherWay #90DayFianceTheOtherWay pic.twitter.com/FF7nIYCz3ZKirsten was shocked to see a bullet hole in Julio's homeKirsten was concerned for her safety after Julio showed her a bullet hole in his house. He mentioned that someone across the street had been shot and his mother was “in the kitchen like 15 minutes after it happened.”After Julio entertained his family and friends’ doubts, Kirsten stormed away crying and saying,“If you say you wanna live separate, then I know enough. I know enough.”90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way airs on TLC every Sunday at 8 pm ET.