Brian Carn, a prophet, gospel minister, and podcaster based in North Carolina, has found himself at the center of controversy following allegations made by his purported girlfriend, Vashti Ennis, on Facebook.
On June 10, 2025, Ennis shared a lengthy post claiming she had been in a decade-long relationship with Carn and accused the pastor of cheating, deception, and spiritual, emotional, and psychological manipulation.
“I feel so heartbroken & I’m so angry choosing to let go the person I loved the most. Why does it feel like a real death? After 10 years of what I thought was a ‘committed’ relationship, I finally have the courage to admit the lies & false hope I’ve accepted for too long…” Vashti began.
Brian Carn’s alleged girlfriend claimed that he called her his wife while apparently continuing a pattern of infidelity and manipulating other women under the guise of his religious leadership.
“A man declaring you’re his wife, he’s committed to you, & he’s ‘in-love’ with you, shouldn’t come with cheating and a double lifestyle… and as a believer in God, it was foolish to not accept sooner that it doesn’t take 10 years, IN GOD to do what’s right,” Ennis wrote.

According to Vashti, she believed she was Brian’s would-be wife. However, she found herself trapped in a cycle of s*xual compromise and church cover-ups. The alleged member of Kingdom City Church shared she “allowed things to happen completely opposite to the beliefs of the Faith & even my own standards.”
Ennis claimed she tried to be everything Carn wanted and “prevent him from falling” because she “loved him with my life,” but ended up as a “foolish woman” who had to sacrifice her morals, values, and integrity.
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Brian Carn, 35, a religious leader, televangelist, author, and recording artist known for his Prophetic Podcast, is currently facing a scandal after a woman named Vashti Ennis made multiple allegations against him and his Kingdom City Church in Charlotte, NC.
“As a member of KCC, I was so brainwashed to ‘stay in place’ and shut up on things even when the truth smacks me in the face, to the point I didn’t even stand for the true things of God anymore!... Even till my own detriment! And I’ve been grieved for a long time,” she wrote.
“Some will say, ‘real love doesn’t expose’ & ‘it covers a multitude of sins’… y’all have NO IDEA…”

She added, saying “NO to a RING” offered by Brian Carn and “choosing to walk away” from the life and promises she prayed and fasted for. According to Ennis, it was the “hardest thing I’ve ever done,” but she had to follow through as it was “bigger” than her. She mentioned there were other alleged “victims” at the church who were part of the toxic culture of cover-ups.
“I refuse to be a wife, counseling my Sisters in Christ who are victims that my man has created & constantly covering mess... so many women endure nonsense & pain and feel like they won because they still have the man in the end, that’s not a testimony I want!” she wrote.
Brian Carn’s alleged partner called out those who encouraged her to remain in a relationship where there was “no respect,” holding on to the hope of becoming his wife. In her post, Vashti Ennis stated that no “image, position, title, or lifestyle” was ultimately enough.
While she admitted the “truth” was “heartbreaking,” she continued to denounce the church’s alleged conditioning, which teaches individuals to “turn away” from reality, even if it means giving up on the “wounded, used, manipulated, and broken.”
Vashti Ennis shared on Facebook that Brian Carn and his church were reportedly responsible for secretly mistreating, lying, and hurting others in the congregation.
“I can’t stand to see another woman leave the church wounded, broken & bleeding… while I’m lied to & loved at the same time. I can’t cover that anymore, for ‘my man’ who knows what he’s doing, knows the outcome & yet pursues it ANYWAY,” she wrote.
Ennis claimed she had lost friends because of Carn, adding that she was tired of confronting him about the same issues repeatedly, seemingly with no accountability from him and only false excuses. Vashti wrote that she was no longer willing to “turn a blind eye” or be a “callous dummy” to please and satisfy Brian.
According to the churchgoer, the spell of delusion under which she believed in and trusted him with her life and future was broken.
“This is not an attack of the enemy. This is a reaction due to his constant, thought-out DECISIONS. I’m done with putting on face & forgiveness staying in a relationship where my heart broke too many times in,” Ennis added.
She also extended her support and solidarity for others in her situation and wrote that she was praying for their freedom from “the spirit of manipulation, deception, mind control, fear, intimidation, desperation & delusion.” Vashti Ennis warned others that no amount of cooking, cleaning, covering, encouraging, obedience, or submission was worth staying with Brian Carn and his ministry.
Asking other women not to hold on to false hope in the name of faith, she expressed her sadness that she continued to be a “front row witness” to people being rebuked for things that Brian and his ministry themselves did in their private lives.
“At what point does a Bible Scholar, intelligent man, who has all the information to do right, & who teaches others, begin to apply the same information?! The problem is, living in secrecy for so long, it becomes a lifestyle of getting away with doing as the heart pleases and damaging the very souls he was supposed to give an account to God for,” Vashti wrote.
According to Ennis, she was not only angry that she allegedly got “cheated on,” but also for spending so many years under “false hope” for a man who “has proven he only cares about himself, his name, his image, & his desires.”
She mentioned being angry at herself for allowing the lies to continue even when the truth was right in front of her, and for defending Brian Carn while being part of the problem.
Vashti Ennis’ post amassed over half a million views, accompanied by videos and images of her intimate moments with Brian Carn, along with alleged flirty text exchanges and virtual arguments. She concluded her post by acknowledging that she still loves Pastor Carn and believes in his potential.
However, she indicated that Brian Carn needs to be honest, do what’s right, accept the truth, seek help, apologize, and take accountability for all the things he has done.

Brian Carn responded via his sermon on Tuesday, part of which he shared on his social media accounts, including Instagram. In it, he could be seen saying he would try to "pursue it, try to make amends, try to get things right, own it, take responsibility, but don't wallow in it." He also mentioned not to allow anyone to "make you wallow." Additionally, he has reposted messages from supporters on social media.